The Ruins Of Us

This is the week.

The week my sister’s book, THE RUINS OF US, goes on sale.

 

Keija once equated writing and publishing a novel to giving birth and being a mother – an analogy I detested at the time, being pregnant and fairly certain that her hemorrhoids were smaller than mine.

But the fact remains that THE RUINS OF US is her baby.  A baby that took five long years to gestate and now it’s going out into the world.  And I’m not talking about a sweet little Montessori preschool kind of world.

I’m talking about a world where good books bloom and die on the vine of overcrowded shelves.  Where mother-authors dream of hog-tying Oprah and holding her for ransom until she lets little Suzy Novel into her precious Book Club.  Where hungry plots and characters are left to sing for their publicity and tap dance their way into the hearts of reviewers.

Fortunately, THE RUINS OF US is well prepared for this unforgiving world.  And I’m not just saying this because it’s my niece or because it can do a mean shuffle ball change.  I’m saying this because even after working in publishing, it utterly captivated my cold, jaded heart.  It is beautifully written.  The characters are compelling.  The plot leaves you breathless.

It is the tale of American-born Rosalie and her husband, the powerful Abdullah Baylani, and their life together in Saudi Arabia.  It is the tale of marital betrayal and the chaos that their children must endure.  It is the tale of Faisal, their son, and the decision he makes that could destroy everything his embattled family holds dear.  It is the tale of a family who must confront difficult truths as they fight to preserve what remains of their world.  THE RUINS OF US is a tale about intolerance, family, and the injustices we endure for love.

Having grown up in Saudi Arabia, this book brought back such visceral memories of the desert and the people.  Of my childhood.  Of Keija and I reading together and listening to my parents tell stories and creating our own stories.  A love of the written word has always been a part of who we are and Keija’s words beg to be savored.

Now.

How to savor these words for FREE!

GIVEAWAY ALERT!  GIVEAWAY ALERT!

I would like to give you – yes, you, because I love you – a signed edition of THE RUINS OF US.  And when the movie of the book comes out and Keija ends up winning the National Book Award, you can day, “Damn, I gots me a signed edition from Keija, yo!  How can I sell this on eBay and make a shit load – oh, wait, I would never sell this because these words are solid fucking gold.”

HOW?  HOW CAN YOU WIN THIS?

You can leave a comment!  That’s it.  That’s all you have to do and I will randomly choose a number and announce the winner next Tuesday, 1/24 (shipping to continental US only).

Of course, I also recommend following @KeijaParssinen on the Twit Machine and liking her on Facebook at Keija Parssinen.  She’s a guaranteed good time and better than A-Word-A-Day for improving your vocabulary.

AND YOU SAY YOU’RE IN A BOOK CLUB?

Well hot diggity dog have I got a deal for you!  If your book club chooses THE RUINS OF US, Keija has generously agreed to Skype / FaceTime / call in for an Author Q&A.  Awesome, right?

AND YOU STILL DON’T BELIEVE ME THAT THIS BOOK ROCKS THE CASBAH?

Then maybe you’ll believe these highly intelligent souls:

“While she portays the physical and social landscapes [of Saudi Arabia] with the precision of an impassioned expat, Parssinen also limns – with a wisdom that belies her age – the culture-transcending contours of the human heart.” - National Geographic Traveler, Book of the Month

“Parssinen’s characters are richly conceived, and her evocative petrol universe of wealth, privilege, and intrigue is unforgettable.”  – Anthony Swofford, author of Jarhead

“Parssinen’s gripping, well-crafted debut tracks the awakening of a Saudi Arabian family to the dangers that lurk within…Parssinen deftly illuminates Saudi Arabian family through a family locked in a battle over morality and cultural chasms.” – Publisher’s Weekly

The New York Times Style Magazine

And on the blogosphere -

Adventures of a Tired Coder

Tiny Library

I could go on, but I don’t want to abuse the Proud Sister Role.  Aw hell, that role was meant to be abused.

So comment away, dear readers!  I can’t wait to give this book to you.

And do me a favor?  Tweet this post wantonly?

(Just not From-The-Street-Corner-At-3am-In-Atlantic-City-Wearing-A-Red-Negligee-Wantonly.)

THANK YOU.

 

35 Responses to The Ruins Of Us
  1. Alexandra
    January 17, 2012 | 8:55 pm

    If I could write book reviews like this, it’d be what I do for a living.

    What I can tell you is that the story was one I had to finish in two nights. Without saying too much, I can tell you I was surprised at which character grabbed my heart.

    And I never saw coming what happened to me: a new understanding for something I once quickly judged.

    An incredible read.

  2. Dina / 30ish Mama
    January 17, 2012 | 10:43 pm

    It sounds so compelling, and just in time for me as I begin my search for a new book to read.

    How exciting for you and your sister!

  3. dusty earth mother
    January 18, 2012 | 7:58 am

    Want this, want this, want this. Not a compelling comment, but it should suffice. Congrats, Auntie.

  4. Eva Gallant
    January 18, 2012 | 8:05 am

    Please, please, please–pick me! I want this book!

  5. Lori Dyan
    January 18, 2012 | 8:13 am

    Ohhhh! I’m not in the US, but I wanted to comment anyway and tell you I’m gonna pick this up ASAP. Sounds amazing and dare I say that you, Chalupa Mama, have also inherited a gift with words….

  6. Suzy Plank
    January 18, 2012 | 8:37 am

    We’ve pre-ordered four copies from Amazon, so don’t need a freebie. Loved your review and can’t wait to read the book.

  7. Ann
    January 18, 2012 | 8:41 am

    Just so in awe of the talent in your gene pool (or in the frijoles, if you will).

    Congrats again Keija!

  8. Suniverse
    January 18, 2012 | 9:18 am

    Wow. I am so excited for you and your sister! Mostly for your sister. [And am not at all jealous. Hardly. At all. No. Let's just go with excited, since that's my New Year's Resolution.]

    I’ve also maybe thought about going back to my book club, and what a great way to do that! I’ll keep you informed.

    YAY FOR KEIJA!

  9. Amy ~ Eat. Live. Laugh. Shop.
    January 18, 2012 | 9:24 am

    Congrats to Keija! The book sounds amazing. Of course, you could make my old running shoes sound cool, but I imagine that talent for the written word may just run in the family!

    And I do have a book club and will suggest this book to the group!

  10. julie gardner
    January 18, 2012 | 10:27 am

    I seriously can’t wait to read it. AND pitch it (insist upon it) to my book club. AND say I know the Chalupa to Keija’s Chimichanga. (I stole that from Ann.)

    I shall tweet this now. Wantonly.
    (Which is pretty much how I do everything. Including stealing. What?)

    XO

  11. Shavavian
    January 18, 2012 | 10:30 am

    I’d like a really good book for free!!

  12. Terri Sonoda
    January 18, 2012 | 10:31 am

    Please include me in the drawing. I would love to win this book! Thank you!

  13. Wendi
    January 18, 2012 | 10:31 am

    You must be so proud of your sister! I hope to go to her reading in Lakeway & talk about you.

  14. Julie
    January 18, 2012 | 10:44 am

    Sounds interesting. I will pitch this to my book club as well.

  15. Nancy Davis Kho
    January 18, 2012 | 10:59 am

    I’m kind of drooly with anticipation right now. How long must I wait before I find out I won the signed copy? Good for your sister, serious congratulations are due and I’ll look forward to reading about her on the cover of the NYTimes Book Review!

  16. Carole Haigney
    January 18, 2012 | 12:00 pm

    Didn’t tweet, but shared on FB. I’ll be head of the Cape Cod fan base! BTW your writing isn’t too shabby! I can feel the love.

  17. Kimberly
    January 18, 2012 | 12:03 pm

    Holy crap.
    This is awesome.
    The book sounds fabulous and I’m already intrigued. Eff word of the day.

  18. Phase Three of Life
    January 18, 2012 | 12:05 pm

    Sounds like a great story! If I don’t win one, I’ll buy one!

  19. poppycock
    January 18, 2012 | 12:55 pm

    Wow, what a great, original book review. I have to read this thing asap.

  20. christine
    January 18, 2012 | 1:54 pm

    What a wonderful book review you’ve given your sister. I can’t wait to read it (whether or not it is won signed copy or one I bought myself)!

  21. Yuliya
    January 19, 2012 | 12:07 am

    Congratulations again to your fabulously talented sister! I can’t wait to read it.

  22. mexmom
    January 19, 2012 | 7:46 am

    I would love to read it, and I would suggest it to my book club.

  23. John
    January 19, 2012 | 9:03 am

    I just finished a book and was wondering what to pick up next . . . so I made my first ever Kindle purchase :-)

    Your sister is my hero.

  24. Becky (Princess Mikkimoto)
    January 19, 2012 | 9:31 am

    This post was beautifully written. Congrats to your sister. I can’t wait to read your niece.

  25. MommaKiss
    January 19, 2012 | 11:16 am

    OK – I’m so going to win this so that I can read it. I am so awed by writers, truly awed. And that it’s your baby niece going out into the world, well, Yay Auntie T! {I know it’s K’s baby, just playin’}

    So a question. If I don’t win and want to buy this on my kindle instead of a real live book, is that an option? But I really wanna win.

  26. Tonya
    January 19, 2012 | 5:44 pm

    I’m very excited! Also, a little overwhelmed since now I have to start a book club which I’ve tried before but (and I didn’t know this) apparently cats do NOT like to read. So I have to find some people this time. Who don’t mind my “eazy breezy” style of hygiene.

  27. Suzy
    January 19, 2012 | 5:53 pm

    Isn’t this the book that @annsrants raved about? I had no idea this was your sister. No one tells me anything and my sister can barely write a shopping list so I tend not to pay much attention to sisters.

    Clearly I’m missing out a lot. I’m going to the store to buy ice cream and when I get back I hope to read I’m the winner.

  28. Julia Strimenos
    January 19, 2012 | 6:02 pm

    I am flying through it and love it. It really captures the longing some expat kids have for the country they left behind.

  29. My Inner Chick
    January 19, 2012 | 9:49 pm

    —- Pick Me! Pick Me!

    I must have that book!!

  30. Kerstin Peterson
    January 20, 2012 | 7:05 am

    The Ruins of Us sounds like an amazing and engrossing read. I have recently become enamored of middle eastern literature, especially as written by women. I would love an autographed copy of this book, but will buy it regardless.
    K

  31. Amanda Hoving
    January 21, 2012 | 8:28 am

    I am so excited to read this book! Congrats on your niece. (chuckle)

  32. Liz @ PeaceLoveGuac
    January 21, 2012 | 1:06 pm

    Yay for you, your sister and your wonderful new niece! Headed over to twitterworld to follow. :)

  33. Lady Jennie
    January 27, 2012 | 6:53 am

    Oops – too late for the giveaway, but I promise I will read her book. Next order to Amazon.

  34. Erin I'm Gonna Kill Him
    January 29, 2012 | 10:02 am

    Will be buying.

  35. deborah l quinn
    February 1, 2012 | 1:07 am

    Okay, let’s get this straight. One sister writes an award-winning, funny, wise, moving, blog. The OTHER sister writes a brilliant debut novel about the incredibly-hard-to-do-well Middle East.
    NO JUSTICE. Why does one family get all those fabulous genes o’articulation?
    Dang.
    Please tell us that you both still laugh at fart jokes and stuff.
    Am ordering e-version of book now. Am planning to be even more jealous in about a week, after I’ve finished reading.

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